First I will reword the question to make it one that many a nubile woman will want an answer to.
“A really rich guy likes me. I want him to marry me, so that I can have kids & live the good life forever after. What’s the best way to accomplish this?”
Your dream has been my nightmare more than once.
It won’t happen to me again. Why? Because I now know all the tricks they use to create the illusion of love and snag a guy like me into marriage. For a guy, mistresses are the only way to go. But more on that later in this answer.
I have been warning guys against marriage for several years, in maybe 1,000+ articles.
Most guys rich and poor will lose control & go nuts over great sex. Unlimited sex on demand is enough to get half the men on Earth to think they are “in love.” Once in love and in need of regular sex, they will do anything to get it and to keep it. Great talent in bed is the female’s best bait —-for getting a steady boyfriend, and then turning him into a husband. One of my many ex-wives later admitted she was a great actress in that department.
There is a book called How to Win Friends and Influence People. The good advice in that book (one of the few how-to books I didn’t write myself) is to become exactly what your target wants.
“Do exactly what your target wants in his permanent partner!”
Besides sex, that could be giving your guy massages with exotic oils, cutting his fingernails and toe nails, cooking up fabulous treats, tidying up his messy house, polishing his car. Maybe exotic or kinky sex. Setting up three way orgies? Whatever it takes.
The fabulous actress / future wife will give the impression that this kind of deluxe treatment will go on forever but only if they marry. Otherwise she whispers a sweet threat that she will be on her way out the door and into the arms of another suitor if no wedding date is set.
This ultimatum is not expressed on the first date- or the fifth. Setting the “tender trap” takes patience and persistence. She meets and makes a good impression on the family of the target. Wins over the future father in law. That is always easy for a good looking sexy touchy-feely woman to do. The mother in law might be harder to get on her side but if she goes back to How to Win Friends and Influence People. The secret of success is there. The little temptress becomes the perfect daughter that the target’s Mama always wanted. In many cases, pregnancy seals the deal.
The funny thing is that if the target is very nice to the temptress as a husband, and they have a good life together, around 20% of all women will want to stick around. A good provider (meal ticket) will do just fine until and unless a better offer comes along. What was a big act may become regular repeat performances enjoyed by all. Of course the great sex drops way off after the kids start coming —but daddies almost always love their sons and especially their baby daughters much more than their wives. They will want to protect, serve & keep the family together. Everybody is happy and the couple grows old together- for better or worse. Well, 20% anyway.
Unfortunately, the odds of a happy long term marriage are fairly bad . Roughly 80% will end prematurely in divorce court. There, the rich husbands have to pay plenty to divorce a usually unemployed wife (by now almost always a mother). She gets half the property acquired during the marriage, half the marital property (stuff registered in both names together), the house, the car, custody of the minor kids, the dog and on top of it all, generous child support.
If the divorcing couple had a pre-nuptial agreement, it will be enforced only if it is about the same as the “fair settlement” the judge would have rewarded the wife with anyway. Pre-nups are worthless!
Here is the warning for the divorced wife: The post divorce period may not be as rosy as she hoped for. She keeps any lump sum settlement. But most ex-wives with no business experience will either squander the money or be swindled out of it by men who specialize in seducing and abandoning wealthy divorcees.
As to the ongoing support, divorced men saddled with big non-tax deductible support awards—they resent paying for a wife without getting any benefits. Like clever people in jail, they will figure out how to escape. Thus the vast majority of support orders are in default or are drastically reduced by the court after 3 to 5 years.
When the kids hit puberty, they can & will often choose leave mommy to move in with daddy. The child support stops. The judge eventually tells the ex-wife it is time to re-enter the work force and become self supporting. The family house is sold and the proceeds divided 50/50. The wife is older and less attractive now. Thus, a repeat performance with another wealthy guy is harder to impossible to pull off. The ex-husband will within a few years or less, wind up living with a younger, prettier girlfriend. He won’t want you back, honey. You are on your own. Time to become a Lesbian? I have noticed that many divorced women seem to gravitate to that for companionship and sympathy.
They should never consider marrying! It is a one-way street to stress, loss of assets, divorce and becoming a professional defendant in court. Instead, show a “keeper” live-in girlfriend how to make deals and make money on her own. One I had with latent entrepreneurial skills learned to become a millionaire within two years. The more passive mistresses got income property as an advance settlement so that they could be financially independent without me—Anytime they wanted to say Bye Bye they could (and sometimes did) without lawyers or courts…